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HELP, I’M OVERWHELMED!


College can be very demanding and can lead to stress and feelings of being overwhelmed. I, for one, find that sometimes in college we put more on our plate than we can manage. With balancing a social life, good grades, being to class on time, maintaining a healthy lifestyle and clubs, college can be stressful. It is important, however, to remember that you’re all in this together and to never ever panic.

Ever heard of a midlife crisis? Only instead, I would have a midday crisis every day of the week and I’m just 18. I was new and terrible at managing my time. I learned the hard way though. Doesn't have to be the same for everyone. It is important to keep track of your assignments and deadlines. Doing six assignments with 4 cups of coffee in one night may seem like a good idea on Friday, but when it’s finally Sunday night, you’ll be too tired, the caffeine wouldn't kick in and you’ll probably end up forgetting to set your alarm. Not a great start to the week. Try to break up the assignments into manageable times. A really big assignment would be impossible to do in one sitting so breaking it up into chunks over a few days would be more efficient and cause way less stress.

It can also be a good idea to reconsider your schedule. Freshman year, no one knows what they’re getting themselves into so dropping a class that makes you feel very overwhelmed may not be the worst idea. You don’t have to take 18 credits every semester. Give yourself a break. Moreover, I know you would love to get involved with everything, it’ all so exciting! But you more than likely already have enough on your plate and there will always be another semester to be part of a club or an activity.

Additionally, it may help to work in the company of friends. Even when I have tons of work, doing it with friends just somehow makes it better. Exercising too, whether it be just a long walk or a run around campus is always a good way to unwind. I find that soothing music and a cup of green tea can instantly lift my mood but different things work for different people. Hey, maybe watch an episode of The Office; never fails to cheer people up.

I always find it’s the littlest things that comfort me. Like starting my day with upbeat music makes waking up easier and always makes me happy. Or maybe just curling up with a good book or watching the rain, going on a walk or feeling happy when they serve my favorite dessert and my 8 am is canceled. It is important to take pleasure in the little things, it would pave the way for a happier and more fulfilled life.

It’s important to remember that stress just leads to more stress and it’s something you can control even when you think you can’t. So just breathe. You got this.

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  1. As a college student, though, you are taking vital steps toward doing something that you really want to do, even if you are not yet sure of what this might be. It is so important to realize the possibilities and the choices in front of you. Instead of wandering from boring job to boring job and living an unfulfilled life, you can, to a large extent, determine your future and do what you love. There is too much on your plate, but you decide what you pick up and eat.

    Realize that a successful college career requires hard work, dedication, and sacrifice.
    Nothing worth while is easy, as the old saying goes, and this certainly is true of a college education. A successful college career requires years of hard work, and you can't expect to be a success without devotion and sacrifice.

    Make your education a top priority. Study hard and play hard.

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